Role-playing

Drama can have a cathartic effect, release emotion and in large ones energies and self understanding

Our brain is the largest sex organ. This is a question about mind over matter. Both Master and slave bring their intelligence and will into play submission depends on the individual civility to align her will with her Master to use her intelligence to fulfil his wishes gracefully and efficiently.

The Master for his part, must be able to direct her will with his own.  It’s all about imagination! We use our imagination every day  for example, we use our imagination to decorate our homes, we use it to write fiction, etc. on the other hand, daring to apply this remarkable human capacity to sex is likely, at least initially, to make warning bells go off in your head, or flash red lights in your mind in your internal warning system that has been planted in our brain, largely without our awareness.  Imagination should not be applied to sexual relationships to improve them or enhance them! It is quite stupid to say it that way, but that in effect, is the message! Why should human thought not be used to advanced sex? Why should human sex not be fun mentally, as well as physically? The Elementary pleasure becomes transformed into psycho sexual pleasure. Sex involves the whole human being. Many people agree with this on a theoretical level, but not on a emotional and psychological level. When Master closes the bedroom door, the two of you are alone, and ready to explore the intimacies of these love games. You, as his slave, you are in his arms, you are completely stripped and open to him. Your beauty is exposed to him actually, you are his love object. What an exquisite joy, you let him make you cry out with joy and happiness, and yield to him. Together, mentally and physically stimulating each other, with extraordinary and incomprehensibly delicious psycho sexual experiences.

All human beings have sexual fantasies, and yet, amazingly, we are often reticent to communicate these to each other. One problem, of course, may be that One fantasy that appeals to one of you, may not appeal to the other, they have to feel there way into the fantasy of the other. There is something there, or presumably the other would not be attracted by the fantasy. Entering into another persons Fantasy world can be an exciting and stimulating experience. You will learn a lot about each other. Some say that you do not really know another person, until you know their fantasies, our fantasies are branded by our history and individualities. They are precious, and in certain particulars, unique to us. So much of our personalities are revealed in our fantasies. Our secret selves, reveals themselves in our fantasies  they are pretty close to who we are. We are perhaps more like we want to be, or would like to be. Our dreams are a significant component of our identity. Role play requires some patients, One partner may be or perhaps both of you may need some time to gently try this out. Seeing for him or her if they are pleasurable.  Love games requires a great deal of practice and experience. I found that gratification was available from the very beginning, but starting slowly.

Freud said that the rape fantasy was the most common fantasy between men and women, this of course, doesn’t mean that any individual actually wishes to be raped. Regardless, without going into details about rape in the real world, The fantasy is about capturing and using a beautiful woman.  For a woman, it is her own capture and subjugation. She is carried to the bedroom, stripped, thrown on the bed and used with a Tender but uncompromising aggressiveness! Patient, and detailed which leaves no doubt in her mind that she is dominated, that she is the object, commanded by an incredible sexual desire.  

If the partners did not know each other, they couldn’t make it delightful and stimulating.   

A Master might find himself wanting to become sexually aggressive. He wants to dominate you, drive you wild with pleasure, to possess you, to own you, to make you possessively his  to want you to have you. To make you helplessly his. You may hold nothing back, yield as the slave girl you are to your Master totally, unreservedly and fully. Empty and shatter  yourself at his feet. Now he is all, and you are nothing. Only a conquered  slave girl. He is all. Yield in all your helpless, degraded, sensual  ecstasy.

Here are some examples of scenarios you can play! Remember that your own fantasies are always the best, maybe they are nurtured and elaborated on since childhood and onwards. They speak most deeply to us. These are examples for inspiration, like recipes to pick and choose from. The point is to get the point. One fantasy that appeals to one, may seem strange or funny to another. The possible role of fantasy to increase sexual pleasure. 

1: your wife is your whore fantasy. 

You pay for your wife’s services and accordingly, treats her as the whore she is. On the other hand, she will have to put up for you, you pay for this. By that I mean treat her with bluntness in particular. Since you are paying for her, you want the best performance. If she wants to stay in business, she better be good. Tell her what you want done, and how you want it done. Make her work for you, make her sweat a little to please you. Lay there and make her put out. The payment is of interest, I suggest that you give her real money a couple of bills on the dresser, or under her body where she can feel them. She won’t object, perhaps to your surprise, by earning a new handbag in this fashion. She should not return it to you, the poor girl has earned it. For variation, maybe your husband is a sailor? What kind of woman awaits him? Maybe the wife is a dancing girl, with other skills. Is she a native woman, or a western woman? Because of unknown secrets, it’s at the mercy of the owner of the establishment is she a woman who has been accustomed to the mastery of men, or is she the westerner Who in fear of the power of the owner of the establishment is forced to be more servile or delightful than any native woman could ever dream of being?   

2: i am sold in a slave market fantasy.

Maybe you are curious of what your flesh will bring? I wonder what it would be like to be placed on the block stripped for the examination of the buyers. I wonder what it would be like to have men bid on my body? what would I sell for? This gives you an opportunity to find out. 

Maybe you are a beautiful tourist who is captured and find yourself placed in such a market. Maybe you are an undercover journalist who has bribed her self into this secret market. She has a hidden camera, ET see it will be a fantastic story! She wants the scoop. She discovers that white women, and women of all colours are sold in this market. With a whip she is driven to the block and stripped, article by article. Before she is sold she is forced to feel the lash on the block, as a slave girl. She has to dance for the men. 

And her buyer, gagging and binding her, takes her home! She never knows when the blow is coming, the blows are not timed. She must wait for each strike, tense, frightened doubtless she is to perform well on the block to interest the buyers. Perhaps she is caressed to check her responsiveness. 

There are many other ways to play out enslavement, of coarse. Perhaps you feel you should be thrown a special kind of garment, and be forced to put it on. The garment of a female slave. Perhaps a certain kind of jewellery is placed on your body, slave jewellery, marking her as property. Perhaps you feel you should be forced to Neil. 

3: I need a job desperately, fantasy

The woman who needs a position, lays for the man who can give it to her.

Afterwards, he either gives it to her or not, depending on whether or not he is satisfied with her. 

Perhaps she must try again, perhaps she can please him more next time. You find yourself in a predicament. You are forced against your will, to buy what you need with your flesh.   The man is rude, in a commanding position imposing his demands. She doesn’t have to fuck, it’s only that if she doesn’t she won’t get the job. This fantasy has somewhat of the whore element to it, it’s only that she performs under duress she must perform, and perform she does 

4: I want my professor fantasy

You don’t really need this good grade, but you want it so badly. You make an appointment to see the professor. You discuss the work with him in the course. You make it clear to him how desperately you need the grade. He tells you to work hard, to study, you cross your legs, and lean forward  you invite him, without speaking, to place his hand on your body, pleading, you look at him piteously, you are all innocence. I need an A so desperately, is there no way I can obtain this? I am willing to do anything. Anything! You say. He touches your body. “Oh, sir! “ he removes his hand  you lean forward again and say, yes anything! Now you are crying! He puts an arm about your shoulders to comfort you  you look up at him helplessly, tears in your eyes, your lips are parted “You excite me“ you tell him. His hands strokes your waist on the side, “Does this excite you?“ He asks. “Yes, sir yes”, you whisper. Then they agree to go to bed. 

Let’s hope he doesn’t  take her on the desk or on his couch in his office. 

Soon it becomes clear by the professors harsh commands and instruction, that you get more than you bargained for. Never had you expected anything like this. He puts you through your paces. You are forced to perform superbly, by his instructions, when you are finished, you have been deliciously had. You put on your clothes, and ask about your grade. You are briskly informed that you should study hard, very hard etc. you then express the rage, indignation and humiliation that such a girl would feel. 

Then the professor caresses you into ecstasy again.

5: The helpless maid fantasy

In many fantasies, it is helpful to engage in activities that set the right mood. Maybe do some housework, and think about this Fantasy. You may also consider wearing a maids uniform. Maybe you meet your Master at the door, take his hat, address him as Sir etc.  all day long, we may suppose, she has in fear that he will indicate to her that he will make her serve him sexually what will he do, she doesn’t know, she is in agony. He is of coarse, handsome and strong, and very sexually attractive to her. After supper, she will see what happens  but he doesn’t say a word. He simply starts to remove her clothing but overwhelmed, helplessly stunned  by his boldness, she is lifted and carried to the bed! 

Of coarse, she obediently complies. 

Have fun!!!